Aspergers....

Joshua’s parents became very concerned about him around the time he turned four. They had thought Joshua’s fascination with the various makes of cars on the road was endearing, but as time went on he seemed to be obsessed with the topic and would speak of nothing else.

Joshua’s preschool teachers told his parents that he had difficulties relating to and empathising with other children. They also noticed he had a particular manner of speaking, and constantly had to be reminded to speak softly. The pre-school suggested an assessment with a paediatrician, who confirmed the diagnosis of Aspergers Syndrome.

Asperger’s syndrome is a developmental disorder similar to Autism. People with Asperger’s often have repetitive patterns of behaviour and obsessions with particular interests. They will know everything there is to know about something like vacuum cleaners and their focus on the topic can certainly frustrate others.

Unlike autism, where people withdraw from the world, people with Aspergers tend to be isolated by others, mostly because of their difficulties understanding the rules of social interactions. They may approach other people in the hope of a connection, but sadly find it difficult to have a conversation.

People with Asperger’s often have particular patterns of speech and language, such as being overly formal or speaking with monotone. They may also display limited facial expressions. People with Asperger’s may be physically clumsy and develop skills such as riding a bike or catching a ball later than their peers.

Asperger’s isn’t a learning disability and so people may have average or above average intelligence. Their attention to detail can increase their chances of career success, with both Mozart and Einstein being suggested as showing signs of having Aspergers. Through experience, adults with Aspergers often develop a better understanding of their strengths and weaknesses, as well as learning to read social cues more effectively.

Whilst Joshua’s parents were initially devastated by the news, they are heartened by the success others with the same experience of the world have made of their lives. They have embraced the opportunity to access support services for him at an early age and are optimistic about Joshua having a great future. They are sure our community with time will become more accepting of people’s differences and approach all people with tolerance and kindness. And as all parents do, they recognise their son’s gifts and they love him absolutely.

Tarnya Davis is a clinical psychologist and principal of NewPsych Psychologists. Ph: (02) 4926 5005. www.newpsych.com.au